Each month has a different theme - stick with the Plan, mix them around, or create your own. 







The Google Calendar will even send you reminders - several each month - to help you on your journey.


January - Adventure Month

February - Surprise Me Month 

March - Be Good to Yourself Month 

April -  Swap Chores Month 

May -  Get in Touch with Your Feminine Side Month 

June -  Get in Touch with Your Masculine Side Month 

July - Work Less Month 

August -  Stop Driving Me Crazy Month 

September -  Listen or Be Heard Month 

October -  Parent Role Reversal Month 

November -  Togetherness Month

December -  Lighten Up Month

This is another self-explanatory month.


When is the last time you surprised your partner?


Here's the trick this month - you both have to sit down and agree to do MORE THAN ONE surprise for each other! Remember when you did a Secret Santa gift in school or at work? Were you one of those people that did an amazing job at repeatedly surprising your gift-ee?  Were you also one of those people who got a lame Secret Santa who claimed to be too busy? Well, no excuses Partners - buckle up and enjoy some fun surprises this month - TOGETHER!


For starters, how about a simple little sticky note left with the morning coffee??


Need a more interesting idea? How about a favorite night time treat left under their pillow (if the dog's not around of course)


Still not enough? Try secretly securing a babysitter one night for a surprise night out!


Unexpected gifts or homemade cookies always work too


And you'd be amazed how far a surprise cleaning or fix-it project will go!


It's not brain surgery - it's just something unusual - and MUTUAL giving is very important on this one - don't fly solo!


For even more ideas, links & resources for Surprise Me Month, click here.


For Valentine's Day ideas, check out this page.